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4 a long time in, Delight Toronto stays an essential website of activism and queer celebration.

Toronto Delight 2021 marks 40 years since Toronto’s first Homosexual Delight Week. Over 4 a long time, what began as a collection of small marches and picnics has became a behemoth competition that spans a whole month. In 2019, 1.9 million individuals attended Delight Month occasions throughout the group’s final non-digital competition.

At all times a mixture of protest and celebration, queers who took half within the early years of Toronto Delight had quite a bit to rally towards. Tim McCaskell, the granddaddy of Canadian homosexual activism, recounts in Any Different Method: How Toronto Received Queer how early Delight occasions acted as protests towards police harassment, lies about homosexuality within the media and the Ontario Human Rights Code’s failure to guard lesbians and homosexual males.

Through the years, the politics of Delight in Toronto have shifted each as homosexual rights have progressed and as Delight Toronto has embraced corporatization. There are nonetheless highly effective political moments, like when Black Lives Matter stopped the parade with a collection of calls for in 2016, however Delight at the moment is extra generally related to dance events than, say, combating again towards the Toronto Police’s documented bias towards queer individuals.

When FASHION reached out to individuals to share reminiscences from Delight, what they shared demonstrated that Delight stays political, although usually on a private quite than a collective stage. Many, for instance, shared tales about taking over house for racialized and othered communities at Delight. Different merely shared their queer pleasure, which is itself a revolution in a heteronormative world.

As these reminiscences attest, Delight doesn’t belong to the organizers who put the competition on, nor to the sponsors who foot the invoice. At its core Delight isn’t even a competition. It’s an concept: queer liberation. Fairness for each queer individual, no matter their extra intersections could also be. Delight is for the individuals.

Courtnay McFarlane, visible artist, poet and archival activist

Junior Harrison, Douglas Stewart, Jamea Zuberi and Angela Robertson. Pictures courtesy of Courtnay McFarlane.

“I attended my first Delight celebration in 1984 after I was nonetheless in highschool, so I’ve many pictures and reminiscences of Delight over the a long time, however this picture is amongst my favourites. It depicts the core members of the collective Blackness Sure! in 1999 who organized the very first Blockorama — the diasporic LGBTQ African, Caribbean and Black stage at Delight showcasing our historical past, creativity, resistance and pleasure. In that first yr we had no stage, lights or change rooms, solely a tent, a sound system and the southernmost sliver of the car parking zone throughout from Wellesley road subway. I tie-dyed this material to cordon off a makeshift change room for the drag performers. Nonetheless, the crowds got here and normal an amphitheatre out of asphalt and planter bins, the DJs created a sonic communal dance ground and drag diva Duchess reigned supreme. This Delight Blockorama celebrates its twenty third yr.”

Amy Gottlieb, activist, artist and educator

“1981. A yr of resistance. Chanting and marching within the streets. Indignant. Joyous. Loving. In February, at midnight on Yonge Road, we roared ‘No Extra Shit.’ Toronto queers had been pissed on the police raids of bathhouses, the brutality and arrests. In June, we yelled on the cops at 52 division, ‘Fuck You 52!’ after leaving our spirited Lesbian and Homosexual Delight Day rally at Grange Park. In October, Lesbians In opposition to the Proper led over 300 proud lesbians in a march down Bay Road, chanting ‘Look over right here, look over there. Lesbians are in all places!’ 1981 was about queers taking over house and resisting police repression alongside Black, Brown and Indigenous communities.”

Kristyn Wong-Tam, Toronto metropolis councillor for Ward 13, Toronto Centre

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“In 1987, I marched in my first Delight parade — alongside professionals, unionists, drag queens, leather-based daddies, muscle Marys, twinks, grizzly bears, good-looking butches, excessive femmes, trans folks and nearly everybody else who stands on the skin wanting in. Years later, I by no means imagined that the expertise of political liberation fostered by my participation in that Delight parade would lead me to turn into the glad, impartial and out queer, non-binary individual I’m at the moment, elevating a toddler with my spouse.”

Priyanka, drag performer and winner of Canada’s Drag Race season one

“My first ever Delight parade, marching within the parade as Miss Crews and Tangos, was overwhelming. Usually, as an individual of the LGBTQS+ group you’re feeling alone. It was a really overwhelming feeling realizing how a lot help there was on the market.”

Rhoma Spencer, arts practitioner

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“I wished to carry a side of my Trinbagonian tradition to Dyke March with ‘Girls’s Well being in Girls’s Palms’ participation by selecting to be the ‘flagwoman’ in entrance of the music truck. That was a crowning second for me, however much more so, the audacity to put on my nation’s flag on my waist draped as a skirt. I used to be making a private assertion that I’m marching for the various LGBTQ individuals at dwelling who couldn’t march to rejoice their delight in Trinidad and Tobago at the moment.”

Aemilius Milo, artist and social entrepreneur

“Does each child queer dream of falling in love at Delight? It was 2016, our group at giant was reeling from the Pulse Orlando tragedy, as a latinx queer, being near my individuals was essential. My mourning coronary heart damaged open, I met my twin flame, had our first kiss in entrance of Wellesley station post-Trans March with Lila Downs singing in live performance for the latinx stage. Hearts healed and desires got here true that evening.”

Andrew Gurza, incapacity consciousness advisor

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“I bear in mind after I marched with my good friend Scott Jones at Delight 2018 in Toronto. Each of us are wheelchair customers and it was so unbelievable to point out that disabled individuals have a spot at Delight, regardless that all of the bars are inaccessible and the attitudes of individuals round incapacity within the LGBTQ2S group are extremely ignorant, this was a second that I may very well be immensely happy with. I may say, ‘I belong right here.’”

Patricia, bar supervisor of Buddies in Unhealthy Occasions

“One yr, about 10 years in the past, I used to be bartending at Buddies with Glenn Dwyer early on the ultimate night of Delight. We had gone via the month of June, shit-show busy, and we had been exhausted and I used to be like, ‘Fuck Delight, it’s exhausting.’ The yr earlier than that, I had a bottle thrown at me and it hit me within the head leading to a fist combat between myself and the bottle thrower. I used to be down on Delight. Glenn checked out me whereas we had been doing a shot and stated, ‘Delight isn’t for us Patricia. It’s for many who don’t have delight on a regular basis.’ Later, two males of their seventies got here to the bar and stated they had been from Texas. As they had been holding fingers, they burst into tears and stated ‘thanks.’ These males and Glenn modified a lot for me. Delight is greater than what we see and greater than we will perceive.”

leZlie lee kam, queer dyke group activist

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“Rage! Rant! Resist! That’s my reminiscence of Delight. In 1999, World Majority Lesbians participated within the Toronto delight parade, with ‘Queer Womyn Colouring The Century – Celebrating Delight, Love, Energy.’ Our signal ‘Cease Police Racism: Finish The Criminalization of Individuals of Color’’ — we struck an enormous blow for JUSTICE! Now, I’m a queer DYKE senior sitting on the board of Delight Toronto, celebrating 40 years of RESISTANCE and PROTEST! My EXISTENCE is my RESISTANCE!!”

Twysted Miyake-Mugler, artist and group organizer, co-founder of Toronto Kiki Ballroom Alliance

“My first reminiscence from Delight must return to 16 years outdated. Nonetheless nervous to be seen in the neighborhood throughout the daytime, I bit the bullet and walked up Mutual Road. At each intersection, I might look to Church Road to see the individuals, hear the music, and really feel the pull of group, however was too nervous to truly step out. By the following yr, I used to be with my mates on Church Road sitting on the steps in entrance of the homes throughout from Timothys espresso.”

Deborah Cox, Grammy-nominated singer, actress and Broadway star

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“Performing on the opening ceremony of WorldPride 2014 Toronto was an unforgettable expertise. To have the ability to rejoice the historical past, braveness, and way forward for the LGBTQ2S+ group alongside so many courageous activists was extraordinarily particular. The fervour for change that ran via the complete competition was palpable, and I used to be honoured to hitch them in celebrating their groundbreaking accomplishments in my hometown. It’s positively a efficiency that stands out as being extremely memorable and provoking.”

Ravyn Ariah Wngz, art-ivist, abolitionist, and orator; co-founder of Black Lives Matter Canada, ILL NANA/DCDC

“Delight 2017 modified my life by revealing a reality I had stored at the back of my thoughts not totally eager to admit as a result of it was too painful. Black trans ladies had been forgotten, unsafe, and disappeared into the corners of the LGBTQ+ group once we are the cornerstone of this queer and trans rights motion. I took my place on the entrance of the Black Lives Matter Toronto March to remind everybody of who began this, and to point out that the work was not executed. In black veils and smoke bombs and in silence we confirmed our energy, resilience, grief, delight, and goal. My hope is that everybody finds the reality of their Delight.”

Keith Cole, efficiency artist and political activist

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“Delight 2009 stands out due to assembly two divas, backstage, for a short meet and greet, and assembly one diva for a drink on the Zelda’s patio (sadly now gone). I met Extremely Naté backstage after her unbelievable efficiency and he or she signed my CD, then I met Kelly Rowland after her efficiency, too. Having a drink with Deborah Cox on the Zelda’s patio that yr, she signed my One Want CD, which I nonetheless have at the moment (‘To Keith, With Love, Deborah’). Delight weekend 2009 was throughout a heatwave — see picture of me sweating it out. It rained on the day of the parade, however cleared up ultimately. Michael Jackson died that final week in June 2009, that introduced many individuals down. Additionally, if you happen to bear in mind QuAIA (Queers In opposition to Israeli Apartheid) was a HUGE presence and introduced a lot anger, confusion and division within the LGBT+ group, the Metropolis of Toronto and the media.”

Tim McCaskell, activist, writer, self-proclaimed “homosexual dinosaur”

“I knew the world had modified [during] one delight within the mid-nineties, when, wandering via Church Road full of revellers, I noticed a hunky, shirtless daddy. Not our form of daddy. An actual one, spouse and two youngsters in tow. As soon as, he would have nervously clutched her, signalling he wasn’t one, within the mistaken place, determined for an exit. That day, oblivious to admiring glances, simply one other nonchalant vacationer. We’d killed homosexual panic.”

Lauren Strapagiel, senior reporter BuzzFeedNews

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“The 2016 Dyke March was every part. I used to be out, nevertheless it was the primary time I felt courageous sufficient to hitch the march as an alternative of simply watching from the sidewalk. I wore a pink sequin crop high, blew bubbles, and received a very bizarre sunburn from all of the glitter smeared on my pores and skin. It’s not my most salacious Delight reminiscence, however it’s the most joyful.”

Tynomi Banks, drag performer and Canada’s Drag Race forged member

“One in every of my favorite reminiscences of Delight was a number of years in the past at Starry Evening, a fundraiser for The 519. It was the primary time I put different drag performers in my present. Individuals assume queens are imply to one another and don’t present help. It was an important reminiscence as a result of it confirmed the group that we work collectively and truly get alongside (and we seemed wonderful whereas doing it). We had been there for an excellent trigger and it was not about anybody’s ego.”

Tyler J. Sloane, multidisciplinary artist, facilitator and producer

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“June twenty second, 2018. Trans colored make-up, with painted on bubbles. Violently blue hair, a shimmer cool-toned Picasso print caftan. An LED hula hoop. It was the primary Trans March I marched as my femme self. ‘Fuck our hearts!’ My finest good friend and I declaring ourselves the ‘Gender-Reveal Twins’ as a mockery to gender-reveal events. My former boyfriend proclaimed his love for me on the Buddies stage. A piano rendition of ‘A Million Causes’ by Gaga.”

Syrus Marcus Ware, activist and artist

“One in every of my favorite reminiscences was Blocko 2006, Deep Dickollective about to go on stage, Trey Anthony internet hosting, d’bi Younger had simply carried out, and Michelle Ross received on stage and broke down this unbelievable afrobeat monitor and whipped her wig off, her peach costume flowing in all places as she spun round in pleasure and energy!”

Angel Imbeault, PFLAG mother or father

“This picture is from 2013 with our indicators from PFLAG, simply earlier than the parade began. From left to proper: my daughter Christina Baron, Scarlett BoBo/Matty Cameron, me (Angel Imbeault), my husband Mike Imbeault.” —Angel Imbeault. Pictures courtesy of Angel Imbeault

“My identify is Angel a.ok.a. Mama BoBo. My household has been attending Toronto Delight yearly since transferring right here in 2008, usually proudly strolling with PFLAG. My favorite Delight reminiscence is from 2013. Often my little one Scarlett BoBo is performing, internet hosting or on a float, however that yr they had been in a position to stroll with us. I’ll always remember turning the nook onto Yonge with Scarlett at my aspect and 1000’s of individuals cheering. The quantity of appreciation for the PFLAG group makes me proud but additionally breaks my coronary heart, as a result of it jogs my memory that so many don’t have supportive mother and father.”

Enza Anderson, 2SLGBTQ activist, former supermodel

“The Delight kiss that has been without end archived on the entrance web page of the Toronto Solar. June 1998, launch of Delight Week at Toronto Metropolis Corridor, official rainbow flag elevating ceremony. Making his Delight debut, newly amalgamated Metropolis of Toronto mayor, Mayor Mel Lastman. Boasting he was a Delight virgin, he hoisted the flag. I witness his individuals go away his aspect, get alongside the person for a photo-op, photographers scrambling, suppose quick, lady! Purple juicy lips smacked on his left cheek! Delight virgin, now not.”

Nikki King/Nicolette Brown, trans girl/drag performer (she/her)

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“Delight weekend 2015. It was a wet and chilly weekend. Often Delight weekend is sunny, heat, and full of individuals throughout Church Road celebrating. Although it wasn’t busy and the climate didn’t cooperate, it was nonetheless a memorable Delight. I used to be in a position to spend Delight with my mates, additionally the limitless free drinks didn’t damage! Glad Delight!”

JP Larocque, TV author and journalist

“A couple of years in the past, my associate and I received into an Uber, heading to the Village. We had been in our leather-based gear and each a bit nervous, as we now have skilled homophobic journey shares. However after a number of quiet moments within the automobile, the driving force complimented our outfits and revealed himself to be a queer elder — he’d come to Canada from the Caribbean within the early ’70s and had confronted discrimination throughout the homosexual group as queer Black man. It was this second of connection as we shared tales forwards and backwards about life in the neighborhood previous and current, and laughed and laughed — a type of oh-so-rare moments of queer connective lineage that had an affect on each of us. That’s positively my finest Delight reminiscence.”

Jaime Woo, activist, mindfulness educator, writer of Meet Grindr

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“In 2018, after practically 20 years attending Toronto Delight, I danced on a float for the primary time, supporting LGBT Youth Line. I marvelled at my journey from an not sure however hopeful youth to the resilient and loving individual of at the moment. I didn’t dance as a result of I used to be good at it, or attractive, or favored consideration — as an alternative, I wanted to carry house in a tradition that routinely trivializes individuals of Asian descent. I moved to the gang’s cheers, and it was wonderful.”

Francisco Ibáñez-Carrasco, HIV activist and assistant professor, Studying Improvements, Dalla Lana College of Public Well being, College of Toronto

“By the point I got here to Toronto in 2009, Delight was already an outsized, commercialized occasion and being pulled politically in lots of instructions. I really feel peripheral to its enterprise however not much less queer. I put out delight on a regular basis, being overtly homosexual and poz; professionally engaged on writing, analysis, and instructing that overtly delves into, and propagates, queerness of all colors, shapes, allegiances, and sizes. When Delight comes, I recede right into a closet.”

Crystal Chandelier, of the Etobicoke Chandeliers, drag performer

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“I used to be sporting silver with a satellite tv for pc on my head and eight” heel, 4” platform sneakers. It was scorching. I used to be simply attending to the parade muster space when my platforms melted. I slid down a leather-based man in chaps. DRAG QUEEN DOWN!! I received up, he handed me my lipstick and off we went. Not a phrase.”

Sonali (Alyy) Patel, activist, scholar and founding father of Queer South Asian Girls’s Community

“In 2020, I used to be the primary South Asian speaker at Delight Toronto’s Dyke March. This wasn’t a private achievement — it was an incredible win for my group. As queer South Asian ladies, we’re severely underrepresented in LGBTQ discourses — particularly in lesbian areas. Talking at Delight carved out visibility in an area the place we’ve at all times been invisible. It was really an honour to talk in entrance a crowd of queer people, whom I by no means thought would perceive nor respect my co-existing queer South Asian identities, whereas sporting my sari and adorned in conventional Gujarati jewelry. This was a breakthrough second for queer South Asian ladies’s visibility in Toronto’s LGBTQ+ group — and hopefully not the final. Delight Mubarak and Delight Vaalthukkal!”

Sica Saccone, poet, Lavender curator and Flamingo Market co-founder

“My favorite reminiscence is my first time going to Delight — sneaking onto a Greyhound bus from Niagara with a good friend to get to Toronto, ending up at Slacks, dancing with strangers and celebrating my newfound love and acceptance of my queerness till 4 a.m. final name. Then having a shawarma picnic on a closed off Church Road with my new friends.”

Elvira Kurt, comic, author, teacup butch extraordinaire

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“1992. To be at Homosexual Delight Day — doing comedy! On stage! As a lesbian! — it was every part. Noon? Positive! Open air? Why not! Squeezed in entrance of the band arrange? Good! Till I get there and it’s simply me earlier than this big empty car parking zone. How do I…? After which, I’m on. Get busy! I did. Sooner or later, I spotted town sounds, the site visitors noises, had been gone, blocked out now by laughter, applause, cheering. I locked in on what had turn into this wonderful rainbow sea of homosexual faces… and soared. Trying again now, I can see that the ‘extra’ I used to be after, the ‘all’ I’d been wanting was right here, on this second, in the course of Church Road, with my individuals. This homo discovered dwelling. And that, is every part.”

Alex Newman, promoting artistic director and co-author of All Out: A Father and Son Confront the Laborious Truths That Made Them Higher Males

“I took my dad to Woody’s. Softcore porn on the TVs, he clutched his beer whereas acclimatizing. To my amazement, he received snug rapidly. Chatting with my mates, then others in the neighborhood and earlier than I knew it, I had misplaced him within the crowd. Reflecting on the night it dawned on us — we had a household union. My paternal household had met my LGBTQ household and so they had hit it off.”

The B-Girlz, drag troupe

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“Delight 1998. Church Road was open to site visitors Friday evening so we determined to squeegee automobiles for charity. We drew an enormous crowd so on Delight Sunday we determined to crash the Parade and unofficially squeegee the floats. Subsequent factor , we had been on the entrance hood of an enormous Labatt truck and simply stayed there! We had the perfect ‘trucking’ time however sadly there was no free beer…. or a sponsorship deal.”

Brad Fraser, author and director

Excerpted with permission from All of the Rage: A Partial Memoir in Two Acts and a Prologue: “No matter its deficiencies, [the film] Parade captures the homosexual village of Church and Wellesley and the homosexual Delight celebrations at their nineties peak [in 1995]. At the moment there have been no limitations between the crowds and the parade individuals. As these limitations went up a number of years later, so did the company sponsorships. And the gelding and homogenization of what had began as a protest and a requirement for recognition.”

Dean Odorico, Woody’s normal supervisor

A picture of one of many floats Dean Odorico helped construct. Pictures courtesy of Dean Odorico.

“Delight has grown and altered a lot in 40 years. I’ve labored in queer institutions throughout all of them. Working Delight may be exhausting and overwhelming. It’s straightforward to neglect in regards to the significance of Delight over time. However yearly I can watch it via the eyes of somebody from a small city or one other nation the place it’s not okay to be totally different. That at all times brings me again to my first Delight, and the way essential it was, as I spotted every part was okay and I used to be glad to be homosexual. My favorite reminiscence of Prides passed by was when all of the native bars created floats for the Delight Parade, and seeing and listening to the response and roar from the crowds lining the streets.”

Hollywood Jade, choreographer and inventive director

“My Delight reminiscence can be the primary time I carried out for Blockorama with Michelle Ross for DJ Blackcatt. Blocko on the time was nonetheless behind the Wellesley car parking zone. I used to be barely authorized and had by no means seen so many queer Black individuals in my life. My entrance to the Black homosexual group was via the fingers of two legends. RIP Michelle Ross.”

Kiley Could, actor, artist, activist, and writer

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“In 2017 my boyfriend Lorne walked with me within the Trans March. He’s an older cis-het man who’d by no means dated a trans girl, and we’d solely been courting a yr. I by no means thought he’d be open to it, however he shocked me when he requested to hitch me. That day confirmed me that he cherished me publicly and was proud to be with me. It meant quite a bit. We’ve now been collectively for 5 years.”

Regina Gently, DJ, musician and performer

“I used to be an everyday DJ at Buddies in Unhealthy Occasions for a number of years and their Delight events had been at all times these mammoth affairs, persistently packed. I used to be on stage in the primary room with a number of hundred youngsters dwelling their finest Delight lives. A part of the gig is enjoying the tracks for the drag present which is like the primary occasion. I used to be arrange centre stage and the queens would carry out proper in entrance of my gear. I begin the monitor, run off stage, the present begins. No drawback I believed, so long as they don’t bump my gear or shake the stage an excessive amount of, , hope for the perfect. Katinka Kuture was being her fabulous showgirl self because the headliner and host. On the climax of her track, as she jumps up and lands straight into the splits, her full weight pounding down onto that stage, the music, stops. And so did my coronary heart. The drop did one thing that reduce the music for a number of seconds, which after all felt like a minute, miraculously it was on beat, after which similar to that as I rushed out to see if I may repair it, it got here again on. A cheerful accident maybe? Was her pussy simply that scorching? The quantity ended with uproarious cheers.”

Clare “Flare” Smyth

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“There may be nothing like strolling down the road as a drag king. Or taking a cab. Or shopping for one thing at a comfort retailer. Or ordering a drink from a bar. It’s surreal in its phantasm. Individuals half methods. Individuals give objects totally free. You’re served first. Within the mirror reflection is the fact. I’m not a white man. I’m a butch lesbian. Nobody will get out of my means and usually I pay additional. I’m a social crime till I put that moustache on. Then I’m King.”

Billy Newton-Davis, singer-songwriter, four-time Juno Award winner

“Delight has at all times been my ‘Christmas’! The fab social gathering that ends on post-Delight Monday… round midday. Love the complete celebration — my tradition and all the individuals.”

DJ Blackcatt, legendary DJ, promoter, curator and member of the Home of Monroe

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“Blockorama is at all times the occasion I look ahead to and bear in mind. I performed Blocko from the primary yr. I actually see sure individuals solely every year at Blocko. The yr I received to be the headliner (closing DJ) was the yr I bear in mind essentially the most. Not solely did I shut with my favorite form of music, home, Jamaica Delight was within the viewers that yr and invited me to DJ for Delight in Jamaica. It was an important expertise.”

Chelle Turingan, managing producer of video at Xtra and co-director of Small City Delight

“My very first Delight was in Toronto in 1999. I’d simply graduated from highschool, I used to be courting my first girlfriend, and I performed a classy little 20-minute acoustic guitar set on one of many smaller levels on Church Road. It was Sunday afternoon, simply earlier than the massive parade on Yonge Road was beginning, so there have been nonetheless lots of people milling about within the Village. My final track was a canopy of 9 Inch Nails’ ‘Nearer’ and after I received off the stage, a gaggle of rowdy homosexual males cheered for me. After attending Prides for over 20 years, that one continues to be one among my favourites.”

Adamo Ruggiero, digital producer

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“Our final Delight earlier than the pandemic, I walked within the parade for the primary time. I introduced my primary ally since highschool. It was scorching and crowded and I used to be anxious and took successful of somebody’s vape simply to settle my nerves. After which there was my ally carrying an enormous flagpole with the Delight flag and a giant, reassuring smile. It was a snapshot of why I survived, then thrived. And so we walked. Thanks allies.”

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